This book is a collection of tips Leonardo Boscarato, who has decided to dial it in order to help society to unravel, at least in part, the fundamental question that generates problems of various kinds, including of course, bullying , addictions, inattention, etc. For who is it? To all the bullies and their victims, parents, teachers of all schools. Also suitable for those who do not have much time to read (to the commitments in the modern social context ) readable even in a smartphone without use a specific e-book reader: author resums up, with his point of view, result years of reading and listening to lectures on his scientific and spiritual passions. It invites one to reflect on many social issues as well as the resolutions of problems.