The Offset Self: The System Behind Self-Deception

di Ehab Abdelmawla (Autore)

Ehab Abdelmawla, 2026

The Offset Self: The System Behind Self-Deception You already know what you should do. So why do you keep doing things that move you further away from yourself? Why do intelligent people repeat patterns they recognize are harmful? Why do good intentions disappear under pressure? Why does the distance between what we know and how we live often grow so gradually that we stop noticing it? The Offset Self explores one of the most common and least understood human experiences: the hidden gap between awareness and behavior. At its core, this book presents a model of self-deception not as a character flaw, but as a system—a process that develops gradually through repetition, adaptation, reinforcement, and internal fragmentation. Through concepts such as the Three Selves, Fragmentation, Borrowed Alignment, Visibility, Drift, the Distortion Field, and Internal Coherence, the book examines how people slowly adapt to contradiction while continuing to believe they are moving in the direction they intended. This is not a book about motivation. It is not a book about productivity. And it is not a book about becoming a better version of yourself. It is a book about coherence. About what happens when awareness, behavior, identity, and consequence stop moving together. And what happens when they begin to reconnect. Blending psychology, systems thinking, behavioral observation, and philosophical reflection, The Offset Self offers a unique framework for understanding why people often live against what they already know. As the book unfolds, readers are guided through a structured journey from fragmentation and drift, through visibility and exposure, toward integration and alignment. Along the way, it explores questions that affect every area of life: • Why does awareness alone rarely create change? • How does fragmentation become invisible? • Why do people repeat patterns they already understand? • What role do environments play in shaping identity? • How does self-deception become psychologically sustainable? • And what happens when the self can no longer avoid seeing the gap clearly? The book also examines how modern environments—from social systems to digital platforms—can amplify fragmentation, reinforce borrowed identities, and shape behavior in ways that often go unnoticed. Part psychological framework, part systems model, and part reflective exploration, The Offset Self invites readers to look beneath the surface of habits, choices, beliefs, and identity itself. Not to achieve perfection. But to understand the forces that quietly pull people away from themselves—and the possibility of returning. Because the most dangerous distance is rarely the distance between where you are and where you want to be. It is the distance between what you already know and how you continue to live. This book does not offer perfection. It offers a mirror. And sometimes, seeing clearly is where alignment begins.

• Autore: Ehab Abdelmawla
• Anno edizione: 2026
• Editore: Ehab Abdelmawla
• Formato: EPUB2 con DRMFREE
• Lingua: Inglese
• Compatibilità: Tutti i dispositivi (eccetto Kindle)
• Layout: Reflowable
• EAN: 9781067125516