Gray Divorce

di MAREN COLE (Autore)

Maren Cole, 2026

You are not late, you are not selfish, and you are not the only one. Between 1990 and 2024 the divorce rate for adults over fifty more than doubled, and two-thirds of those endings are started by the wife, usually after a long, quiet arithmetic that finally stopped adding up to a life worth keeping. Almost every popular divorce book on the shelf is written for thirty-somethings with toddlers. This one is not. Gray Divorce is an honest, protocol-driven guide for the woman ending a long marriage in midlife: the retirement accounts, the adult children, the changed body, the friendships that may not survive the news, and the self that has been negotiated for so long she is no longer sure where the negotiating ends and she begins. Over twelve chapters and twelve time-bounded Protocols, Maren Cole moves through three stages. The ending: the quiet arithmetic, the decision year, a plain-English money map, the body that holds the rupture. The threshold: the conversations with adult children, learning solitude, one income and one roof, the friendships that last. The new life: a body of your own again, the dating question, the five-year design, the second-half manifesto. Inside: - The Quiet Arithmetic Audit, the 45-minute exercise that names what you already know - A plain-English walkthrough of asset division, retirement splits, and Social Security spousal rules - The script for telling your adult children, including the version that does not turn them against either parent - The Solitude Protocol, a weekly practice for being alone in your own house without flinching - The Money Reset, a one-income budget worksheet built for women starting over after fifty - The Dating Decision Tree, how to think clearly about whether, when, and with whom - The Five-Year Plan and the Second-Half Manifesto, the design tools for a life you build on purpose It is for women in their fifties, sixties, and seventies who are weighing the decision, recently separated, or already on the other side of a long marriage and trying to work out what happens now. For readers of The Wisdom of a Broken Heart by Susan Piver, Conscious Uncoupling by Katherine Woodward Thomas, and Untamed by Glennon Doyle. The marriage did not end in a day, and the new life will not begin in one either. But it does begin, and the second half is yours to design.

• Autore: MAREN COLE
• Anno edizione: 2026
• Editore: Maren Cole
• Formato: EPUB3 con DRMFREE
• Lingua: Inglese
• Compatibilità: Tutti i dispositivi (eccetto Kindle)
• Layout: Reflowable
• EAN: 9798235425064