Breaking Patterns: From Dysfunction to Thriving

di Talia Westcott (Autore)

epubli, 2026

This book explores the psychology of repetitive dysfunctional patterns by examining why we return to situations, relationships, and behaviors that harm us, even when we consciously recognize the damage. It investigates what these patterns are attempting to resolve, and what their persistence reveals about unfinished business, unconscious loyalties, and the familiar safety of predictable pain. Rather than treating toxic patterns as character flaws requiring willpower, this book reframes them as adaptive strategies that once served a purpose—perhaps providing connection in childhood, creating predictability in chaos, or offering a sense of control when actual agency was unavailable. It examines the neuroscience of pattern repetition, the role of attachment wounds in recreating familiar dynamics, and why insight alone cannot interrupt cycles that operate below conscious awareness. It explores the difference between recognizing dysfunction and possessing the internal resources to choose differently, between wanting change and having the nervous system capacity to tolerate something healthier. Through compassionate inquiry, the book navigates the shame of repeating patterns you promised yourself you'd never return to, the confusion when you choose the same outcome with different people, and the grief that accompanies finally breaking cycles that once felt like identity. It offers insight into what makes patterns feel impossible to break, what internal conditions must shift before external change becomes sustainable, and how to recognize when you're genuinely ready versus when you're still rehearsing an exit you're not yet prepared to take. This is an invitation to approach your most persistent patterns not with self-judgment, but with curiosity about what they're protecting, what they cost you, and what becomes possible when you stop abandoning yourself to maintain what's familiar.

• Autore: Talia Westcott
• Anno edizione: 2026
• Editore: epubli
• Formato: EPUB2 con Adobe DRM
• Lingua: Inglese
• Compatibilità: Tutti i dispositivi (eccetto Kindle)
• Layout: Reflowable
• EAN: 9783565237098