Unpicked

di Robert Smith (Autore)

Robert Smith, 2026

It was never a bad habit, and you were never weak. If you pick your skin or pull your hair, you have probably been told - by yourself most of all - that you could stop if you simply wanted to badly enough. You have tried. You have promised, sworn off it, sat on your hands, thrown away the tweezers, covered the mirrors. And still, in some unguarded hour, you have found yourself back in the small trance with the evidence under your fingernails and the shame arriving right behind it. This book begins by telling you the truth no one did: this is not self-destruction. It is self-soothing that turned costly. Compulsive skin picking (dermatillomania) and hair pulling (trichotillomania) are recognized body-focused repetitive behaviors - BFRBs - that touch roughly one in twenty people. Willpower fails against them because the hands are meeting a real need the only way they know how. You cannot simply subtract a tool the body relies on. You have to understand the need, and give the body something better to do with it. That is what Unpicked is for. Warm, science-grounded, and entirely free of shame, this is a gentle field guide built on the methods that actually work - habit reversal, the Comprehensive Behavioral (ComB) model, urge surfing, nervous-system regulation, and self-compassion as a clinical tool rather than a consolation. Across fifteen chapters and fifteen practical exercises, you'll learn how to: - Understand what is actually happening in your brain and your hands - and why "just stop" has always backfired - Map exactly where, when, and why you pick or pull, using the five-domain ComB framework - Catch the behavior earlier, give your hands a competing job, and engineer your environment so picking is harder and the alternative easier - Ride an urge without obeying it, and calm the anxiety, boredom, and overwhelm underneath - Slip without collapsing - and finally heal your skin, let yourself be seen, and build a life your hands don't run If you have spent years hiding this and hating yourself for it, put the contempt down. The hands can be given other work. The mirror can become just a mirror again. This is where that begins.

• Autore: Robert Smith
• Anno edizione: 2026
• Editore: Robert Smith
• Formato: EPUB2 con DRMFREE
• Lingua: Inglese
• Compatibilità: Tutti i dispositivi (eccetto Kindle)
• Layout: Reflowable
• EAN: 9798232666767