The Emotionally Intelligent Life

di RJ Starr (Autore)

RJ Starr, 2025

The Emotionally Intelligent Life: What It Looks Like, What It Doesn't, and How to Grow It by RJ Starr Emotional intelligence is one of the most vital, misunderstood, and underdeveloped aspects of the modern human experience. We know we want it—perhaps we even think we have it—but rarely are we shown what it truly looks like in real time. In this refreshingly honest and deeply practical guide, psychologist and educator RJ Starr takes you far beyond the buzzword and into the lived reality of what it means to be emotionally intelligent—and what it looks like when we're not. Rather than presenting emotional intelligence as an abstract theory or a personality trait you're either born with or not, The Emotionally Intelligent Life offers something more grounded: a daily practice, a personal ethic, and a path of growth you can walk at any stage of life. Whether you're leading a team, parenting a child, navigating conflict in a relationship, or simply trying to become less reactive in the heat of the moment, this book gives you the tools—and the emotional clarity—to begin again, with integrity. Structured around real-world scenarios and powerful contrasts, each chapter offers a side-by-side look at emotionally intelligent responses versus emotionally unintelligent ones. The examples are immediate and relatable: how we respond to feedback at work, how we say no to a friend, how we handle being hurt without punishing others, and how we choose vulnerability without falling apart. These contrasts illuminate something simple but profound: we learn through example, and we grow through honest self-reflection. Throughout the book, Starr draws from decades of psychological insight and real human experience, blending emotional clarity with accessible theory. His writing is both professorial and personal—firm but never condescending, deeply compassionate without becoming sentimental. Alongside vivid examples, he shares his own lived experiences, missteps, and emotional turning points, modeling the very self-awareness and humility he invites readers to cultivate. The Emotionally Intelligent Life is not about perfection. It's about learning to pause before reacting, to own your emotions without weaponizing them, and to show up in relationships with presence, dignity, and courage. It's about learning to repair after you've hurt someone, to speak with honesty rather than sarcasm, and to regulate without repressing. Divided into five parts—Foundations, Everyday Life, Under Pressure, The Culture, and Personal Growth—the book covers a full spectrum of emotional terrain. You'll explore topics like emotional hijacking, ghosting, conflict and confrontation, parenting, digital behavior, burnout, and vulnerability. Each chapter ends not with to-do lists, but with deeper understanding—so you can live the insights rather than just memorize them. This is not a book about fixing yourself. It's a book about knowing yourself more deeply, and growing from that place of self-knowledge. It's about learning to live with emotional integrity, even in a world that often rewards the opposite. If you've ever wondered how to express hard truths without destroying connection, how to recover from moments of emotional misalignment, or how to lead, parent, and love from a place of clarity rather than control—this book is for you. Whether you're a psychology enthusiast, a professional, a partner, a parent, a friend—or simply someone who's ready to live a little more honestly—The Emotionally Intelligent Life will meet you where you are and walk with you as you grow.

• Autore: RJ Starr
• Anno edizione: 2025
• Editore: RJ Starr
• Formato: EPUB3 con DRMFREE
• Lingua: Inglese
• Compatibilità: Tutti i dispositivi (eccetto Kindle)
• Layout: Reflowable
• EAN: 9798227268457