The Orchid Code

di PhD Aliza Pressman (Autore)

Flatiron Books, 2027

From a renowned developmental psychologist and host of the podcast Raising Good Humans comes a revolutionary field guide to the science of temperament—and why understanding it changes everything about how you parent. The same sensitivity that makes a child more vulnerable to stress makes them more responsive to support. That is the central insight of The Orchid Code—and it reframes what we think we know about why children are so different from each other, and from us. Every child arrives with a nervous system calibrated to experience the world in its own way. Orchids process deeply, feel intensely, and need particular conditions to flourish. Dandelions adapt to almost anything. Most children are tulips, somewhere in between. What all of them need is to be understood for who they are, rather than measured against a child who was never them. Drawing on decades of research in developmental psychology and revelatory new temperament science, Dr. Aliza Pressman shows that sensitivity runs in both directions. The children most easily undone by a hard environment are the ones who gain the most from a good one. Pressman gives the upside a name. She calls this flourishability, a sensitive child’s heightened capacity to bloom when conditions are supportive, and it changes what a parent pays attention to. It also asks something that feels uneasy. This book will invite parents to let their children be uncomfortable, to find the space between dismissing a child's experience and overaccommodating it, and to tell the difference between the stress that builds resilience, the stress that calls for support, and the stress that calls for protection. Along the way it makes a larger argument: as a culture, we have been mistaking temperamental luck for parenting skill. When children feel known for who they actually are, they stop spending their energy trying to be someone else and start becoming themselves.

• Autore: PhD Aliza Pressman
• Anno edizione: 2027
• Editore: Flatiron Books
• Lingua: Inglese
• Compatibilità: Tutti i dispositivi (eccetto Kindle)
• Layout: Other
• EAN: 9781250462329