Undone

di Robert Smith (Autore)

Robert Smith, 2026

You keep stopping one step short of the life you say you want, and you have started to think it is a discipline problem. It is not. It is protection. The late submission. The picked fight the week before the good thing. The project abandoned at ninety percent. The opportunity talked away so reasonably that no one, least of all you, could see it for what it was. Undone is for the person who undermines themselves right at the threshold of success, safety, or happiness. Self-sabotage is not a character flaw and it is not weakness. It is a strategy, built long ago to keep a younger you safe, and never told it could stand down. This book teaches you to see the move while it is happening, meet the part of you that pulls the brake, and finally retire it from a job it no longer needs to do. In three parts, diagnosis, mechanics, and the work of undoing the undoing, you trace the pattern to its origin, feel where it lives in the body, and raise the inner ceiling on how much good you can hold without correcting back down. Direct, literary, and unsentimental, written for intelligent readers who are tired of being told to just try harder. Inside: - Why success, visibility, and ease can register in your nervous system as danger, and how to widen the window - The Upper Limit Problem, the hidden thermostat that drags you back to a familiar baseline every time you exceed it - The many disguises of sabotage, perfectionism, procrastination, picking fights, numbing, the chronic almost - The secondary gain, what staying small quietly buys you, and why no behavior stops until its payoff is named - How to interrupt the move in real time, learn to finish, and let a win be witnessed without flinching Fifteen chapters, fifteen protocols you can actually do, one clear path out of your own way.

• Autore: Robert Smith
• Anno edizione: 2026
• Editore: Robert Smith
• Formato: EPUB2 con DRMFREE
• Lingua: Inglese
• Compatibilità: Tutti i dispositivi (eccetto Kindle)
• Layout: Reflowable
• EAN: 9798235163867