Gender Transition: Where to Start and How to Thrive

Are you tired of living in the gender shadows of dysphoria? Are you doing your best to survive day to day while knowing you are not living your authentic life and/or gender? Maybe you are ready to transition to living life as your true gender, but you are scared and unsure where to start? If this sounds like you, then this is the book for you. My name is Cindi Grace Miller and I have experienced life-altering gender dysphoria and a fear that stopped me in my tracks for most of my life. While I was struggling with this dysphoria, I was also experiencing many failures career-wise, as well as many successes. I know what it is to struggle financially and have even experienced bankruptcy and homelessness. I also know what it is to succeed financially and to create a life of surplus and ease. I've done most of this while pretending I was male and knowing that I was not. I know what it is to feel like a spy behind the enemy lines, always being scared you would be discovered. If you have struggled with questions about your gender identity, then this is the road map you need to unleash the authentic you. You may have tried to tell others at one time and maybe you were shut down or shamed for what you expressed. If you're like most people of trans experience, you are probably really good at being secretive. You have had to be for your survival. Maybe you have silenced the questioning in your own head or maybe it has made you feel like you have multiple personalities. You may have spent years trying to prove that you are the gender that you were assigned at birth, even though you knew it wasn't true. Many people try to temporarily assume the gender that they feel inside and then regularly go back to the gender that the world knows, constantly jumping back and forth. Some of you may have even spent hours on your knees in prayer, hoping you would wake up the next day and the urge of your authentic gender would be gone. However, it never happens. In this book I map out exactly what you need to know to live your true gender and your best life. I show you where to begin, what obstacles and dangers to be aware of along the way, and how to not just survive as a person but thrive as your authentic self. I give you step by step guidance, with resources to support you as you transition. I know that it is scary. I personally have felt the fear that paralyzes any forward movement in my life. I have also experienced the euphoria that comes with tapping into my true gender authenticity and helping countless others do the same. It is my hope that in reading this book, you set foot on the path to your true gender identity and that you are encouraged to continue to put one foot in front of the other as you climb to a spectacular vista of authenticity.